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Don’t take my kindness for weakness >> The Personal Series

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I’ve had my kindness and my willing to help people taken advantage of a lot but none more then by a women I will call C, I met C while I was on the bus…I was sitting in front of her and I overheard her say something like she had a ton of laundry to do and didn’t have the money. I had extra money so I gave her money so she could do her daughters laundry…she cried and we exchanged numbers.

She told me she was pregnant with her second child and we hung out some and I got to meet her daughter. Then I went to facebook and my friends & family and asked if anyone had baby clothes or things they didn’t need so I could help this women, her daughter and her unborn child. My SIL had some stuff and I made plans to go and pick it up, I bought her daughter a coat, diapers, clothes and spent over 200.00 for a child that wasn’t mine.

Then my SIL said she wanted to give the baby stuff to her husbands sister, when I told C, she flipped and asked why “I pretended to want to help her” BITCH seriously??? I ended up blocking her and haven’t spoken to her since.

The Personal Series

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I will be starting a new blog series called The Personal Series that just means the stuff I will be talking about, I don’t normally speak about online. Things include bad relationships I’ve been in, My son, being taken advantage of, having a near death experience, ect. I need to find a way to express myself in a positive way.

Saturday Share Day > Day 1

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Saturday, May 12th 2018 @ 7:45PM

I am reading: A Panicked Premonition by Victoria Laurie

I have read 30 out of 50 books for the reading challenge on GoodReads

I am feeling bored but I don’t want to read,play the sims, check email, watch tv, watch a movie, ect to get me out of this feeling

I am looking forward to my birthday

I have not started reading any of those five books I mentioned a couple of days ago

I have a ton of surveys sitting in my inbox and don’t feel like doing any of them

This week I have one appointment

My knee’s have been bothering me and I can’t find my brace

 

Giveaway >> Butterfly Frame

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I bought two of these picture frames awhile back: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008Y62OHY. I gave one to my SIL and the other one has just been sitting here so I decided since I want to do another giveaway, I will just giveaway this frame. This one won’t end until August 31st, 2018 so there is plenty of time to enter and the winner must be willing to give me a mailing address so you can get your prize, it can be a PO box if you’d like.

All you have to do to enter is fill out the contact form in this post, have a working email address and comment on this post on why you would like to win. That is it, Good luck.

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Personal Update

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I have been dealing with a respiratory infection for the past two weeks which has made it extremely difficult for me to be on the computer for long periods of time doing anything more then checking email. I have been sleeping a lot, doing a lot of breathing treatments and binge watching tv shows, movies and reading.

The up and down weather and all the rain has also left me in a lot of pain, my knees have been bothering me something fierce. I can make promises about blogging more but honestly I never know what I will be doing or what will come up so I won’t bother. If you subscribe to updates via email, you will get my entries in your email..otherwise keep checking my social media, Links get shared every time I post.

Now that it is warmer outside I want to get outside and do some walking, I gained a bit of weight over the winter and i’m not happy with myself. It’s more painful the heavier I am on my knees and harder for me to breathe. I also want to quit smoking and be smoke free by August.

 

March Recap & Post Goals for April

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March was an off month, I ordered a new laptop in the beginning of the month and was waiting for it to get here. I reconnected with an old friend whose going through a hard time and have been spending a lot of time with her. I blogged nine times in March, these are the four entries you should check out.

 

http://jolene.thislove.nu/2018/03/appwebsite-review-pluto-tv/

http://jolene.thislove.nu/2018/03/five-book-related-subscription-boxes-i-want-to-try/

http://jolene.thislove.nu/2018/03/seven-little-known-facts/

http://jolene.thislove.nu/2018/03/i-hate-this/

 

 

For April I’m going to post at least once a week and get two survey site reviews done and at least one product review. I have some appointments set up for this month and am waiting on the social security decision and whether I have to appeal again, to go before a judge this time. Happy Easter to those who celebrate and Happy Fools day to those who don’t.

Three Favorites ; Websites

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When I want to be entertained and I don’t feel like reading a book or blogging. I typically will go on one of these websites or apps.

 

Buzzfeed – https://www.buzzfeed.com/

I go on this site most and I must admit I subscribe to several of their newsletters/emails. I even have a special folder I put them into, in my email client and then I surf through them when I have nothing else to do.  This is my favorite site to waste time on, always something entertaining to read.

 

List Challenges – https://www.listchallenges.com/

I  stumbled upon this website a couple months ago and it’s a time killer. Checking off things I’ve done on lists is relaxing when I am stressed out. Here is my profile if you are interested.

 

BoredPanda – https://www.boredpanda.com/

This site makes me laugh, I use their app so I can laugh when I am having a bad day and not home. That is the only reason I really visit this site.

 

Are there any websites that are your go to’s when you are bored? Leave in the comments and I’ll check them out.

I hate this

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I have been up all night, this is so normal for me and I can’t stand it. My SO is trying to control my coffee intake when coffee has never had any effect on me. My brain won’t shut off, that is the problem.

My doctor put me on the same sleeping pill and same dosage as she had me on back in twenty thirteen when I was seeing her. Afterwards my PCP was prescribing it and the major issue is…my body is used to it now. Medication is weird like that…what works for one won’t work for another and your body can get used to medication.

I have an appointment with her on Friday so I will let her know then, my doctor is pretty cool so I don’t think it will be a problem upping the dosage or trying a new med. I’m also stressed out, my court date is Tuesday.

I don’t have a lawyer because legal aid sucks..I called them back in October when I first appealed and they told me to call back when I got a court date. Then two weeks ago when social security set a court date, now they can’t help me because there is no time…uh make up your mind, for real.

So fuck it, it is what it is. I’ll have my doctor give me some paperwork stating my diagnoses and what medication she has me on and answer the questions the judge asks. It’s Wednesday and my court date is Tuesday, I know how I feel better then anyone. Hopefully it will be okay.

If worst comes to worst someone from target contacted me about some job that pays weekly plus commission via my indeed account. Social security can’t cut me off without notice so I will be able to pay my rent in April even if they do cut me off. I hope they don’t though.

I’m Around

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I bought a used computer last week which got here Friday, I was going to use it for parts to fix mine but the screen on this one is broken too. I am able to use it though and I got it for eighty dollars so…

I am trying to stay on top of my email, I may have to do a mass delete of my personal one. SO bought me a kindle fire a couple weeks ago, I have the seven so I have been doing a lot of reading and playing Sims Mobile which I like way better then Freeplay. I was able to install the sims 4 on this laptop and I bought the Laundry stuff pack but I haven’t really played yet.

I have been on twittter and on a couple of groups on facebook.

Family drama

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I don’t usually post names but I’m posting them in this post.

 

After the bad week I had I was trying to chill yesterday, I got a huge blessing Saturday morning. I was able to order parts for my laptop so I can fix it. I was in a pretty good mood, I get on fb and I notice Jen knows my cousin. Jen called me and told me my cousins businesses.

 

That is how it started, I sat for a good half hour thinking about telling my cousin as I knew it was going to start some bullshit. In the end I told her so. Look this is the thing, you can say whatever you want about me but don’t bring my child in to it.

 

Now here come liz Looney goofy looking ass, this bitch always putting her nose into some shit that don’t have nothing to do with her. Bitch going to leave me on VM but not going to answer when I call back.

 

I went to the store, get tagged in a post two hours after My cousin was over the shit. Here come Jen Looney ass acting like a fucking victim as she does, putting my business and cuzos out. Bitch had Liz calling my cousins mans phone.

There is different levels of crazy, there’s jen and Liz crazy. Then there is my cousins brand of crazy. Stop messing with her, leave her alone.